My mind has been tending to drift towards the negative (more than usual!) as of late, so I thought I would take some time to jot down the good things that happened today:
I was leaning out the door saying goodbye to Cooper and Greg this morning. I said "Goodbye, Cooper! I love you!" and he turned around and smiled at me and said "I luh you, ma!" He's been saying "I love you" back for a month or so now, and I don't think it will ever get old.
First full week that my work schedule is back to normal!! There are not enough exclamation points for this. I never realize how much goodness comes from a more or less regular schedule until it is thrown off.
I decided to stop decorating outside for Halloween. I know this sounds like a bad thing, but honestly, I am pretty relieved about it. There is definitely a bit of sadness about not having a crazy yard, but I am so looking forward to not being tied down to my house on Halloween (to hand out candy) for the first time in the last 5 years. I am thinking a Halloween camping trip will be in the works! Also, less clutter and less money spent.
My house has been clean for a few days in a row! Okay, so you still need to close your eyes and pretend the nerd room and my craft room are clean, but the rest of the house has actually stayed clean!
Take that, Monday blues!
Monday, June 15, 2015
Wednesday, June 10, 2015
Clutter
I am having a really difficult time managing the clutter that is involved with crafting. I have been leaning very heavily towards getting out of the business side of things, and much of that is due to the clutter.
I don't want 20 rolls of vinyl hanging from my wall, a printer that's the size of a microwave, huge craft machines, thousands of plastic bags (for craft fairs), 40 bubble mailer envelopes, boxes, stacks and stacks of paper taking up space in my home. The problem is that I truly love to craft and create. I love that I can make all of Cooper's decorations for his birthday party. I love that I just made Greg a shirt to wear tomorrow. I guess I have to find that balance and figure out if all of the clutter is worth it.
This is the same problem I ran into last year with Halloween. The magnitude, both financial and physical storage strain of being an overly enthusiastic Halloween decorator hit me like a ton of bricks the night of Halloween. I wondered if it was worth it. My decorations sat outside on the back patio for months.
I'm wavering in terms of whether or not either one of those ventures are right for me anymore. I have no regrets about trying the business side of the craft world, but I just don't see it working out. Even if financial success does start to emerge from it, I just don't see how the time away from my family or the complete chaos that a craft business entails is worth the financial gain.
Oh, and Halloween? Even if my yard isn't decked out I will absolutely continue to celebrate the season. There are still pumpkin patches, apple orchards, haunted houses (maybe not mine!), Halloween camping, and so many other ways to celebrate it. I just feel like both crafting and Halloween cultivate a constant sense of "need to buy more things." It's something I am trying desperately to get away from. I want to experience more, not acquire more.
I don't want 20 rolls of vinyl hanging from my wall, a printer that's the size of a microwave, huge craft machines, thousands of plastic bags (for craft fairs), 40 bubble mailer envelopes, boxes, stacks and stacks of paper taking up space in my home. The problem is that I truly love to craft and create. I love that I can make all of Cooper's decorations for his birthday party. I love that I just made Greg a shirt to wear tomorrow. I guess I have to find that balance and figure out if all of the clutter is worth it.
This is the same problem I ran into last year with Halloween. The magnitude, both financial and physical storage strain of being an overly enthusiastic Halloween decorator hit me like a ton of bricks the night of Halloween. I wondered if it was worth it. My decorations sat outside on the back patio for months.
I'm wavering in terms of whether or not either one of those ventures are right for me anymore. I have no regrets about trying the business side of the craft world, but I just don't see it working out. Even if financial success does start to emerge from it, I just don't see how the time away from my family or the complete chaos that a craft business entails is worth the financial gain.
Oh, and Halloween? Even if my yard isn't decked out I will absolutely continue to celebrate the season. There are still pumpkin patches, apple orchards, haunted houses (maybe not mine!), Halloween camping, and so many other ways to celebrate it. I just feel like both crafting and Halloween cultivate a constant sense of "need to buy more things." It's something I am trying desperately to get away from. I want to experience more, not acquire more.
Tuesday, June 9, 2015
3 years.
In just over 2 weeks I'll have a 3 year old. Just like last year, birthdays are tough. It's really difficult knowing I want another and knowing that's never going to happen. It's difficult not having the person closest to me be on the same page to empathize with and to understand what I am going through (and yes, he knows I'm writing this...there is no bus-throwing or secrecy going on).
I wish it was easier, but I'm not blind. I know how lucky I am to have such a wonderful kid. While it is sad (at times, enough to feel like the wind has been knocked out of me) to know that I'll never get to experience this again, maybe it's just a way to reinforce to look closer, to appreciate all of the little moments and milestones. It's so cliche but it really does go by too quickly.
I wish it was easier, but I'm not blind. I know how lucky I am to have such a wonderful kid. While it is sad (at times, enough to feel like the wind has been knocked out of me) to know that I'll never get to experience this again, maybe it's just a way to reinforce to look closer, to appreciate all of the little moments and milestones. It's so cliche but it really does go by too quickly.
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